Sunday, December 23, 2018

Have a Very Merry Christmas! (12/24/08)


[1]I have to be brief today. I'm emailing today because our preparation day was switched to today for Christmas Eve. We are emailing at the Davenport library which is closed on Mondays because the Cheney library is closed today. There is only one computer so I don't have much time. We got our hair cut today at a good old-fashioned barber shop in town. It seemed a lot like Floyd's Barber Shop but not as friendly. It was cheaper than Great Clips.

Thanks for the Christmas package. I didn't realize you'd already sent it before I made my Christmas request. Today I'll be getting the package from Aunt Terri. I wanted to send out a lot of Christmas cards but I didn't have enough time and I was only able to send to you, Grandpa and Grandma, and Dave and Ya-ping, I think. I can't remember any more I sent.

I'm worried about the call home. We are going to be able to sleep in, and watch a Disney movie. The one we selected is nearly three hours long (guess which one it is!) so we had planned probably calling in the afternoon but we can probably move it up. Two o'clock there is one o'clock here so we may have to adjust our schedule a little bit.[2]

It has continued to be cold and snowy. It was about sixteen degrees today and it feels very warm compared to the negative two we've had. On Saturday night we went to the Ritzville branch Christmas party. It was important for us because we had fourteen nonmembers and eight less-actives show up. We had to leave that night to Davenport before it got snowy and windy (the drifts here can be colossal) and we got about a half hour out of town when the newly-called first counselor of the branch presidency called because we had his keys. So, we had to turn around, and got home late. The next morning there were a lot of drifts. We had about twenty people at church. It was the third Sunday but the high counselor couldn't make it, so it was a short meeting. It was only worth having sacrament meeting. Davenport does a better job of clearing the roads than Spokane does, but the whole state of Washington is dumb. A bigger snowstorm in Utah wouldn't affect everything as much because they just plow and move on. But up here, it's like, "Oh, no! It snowed! What are we going to do? Guess we have to shut everything down." Last year they closed school for a week and I didn't see a plow until a week after the snowstorm. The Davenport Elementary School this week should have been closed because their boiler went out, so fish died, toilets froze, tiles broke, and cold ensued, but they merely started late, so everyone was mad.

My time is about up but I can talk to you more tomorrow.

Love,

Elder Melville


[1] The title of my letter is the title of a song in the Children’s Songbook.
[2] As it turned out, we ended up snowed in at a members’ home in the middle of the Washington farmlands on Christmas Eve, so we spent the night there and used their phones in the morning to call our families. When we finally left, we were late to a dinner appointment, and then we watched Mary Poppins with the couple we lived with part-time.

Sunday, December 16, 2018

I'm Mr. Icicle, I'm Mr. Ten Below (12/15/08)


[1]It truly feels like Christmas now. We finally got snow in Ritzville. It snowed a little on Friday but most of it melted. It was a little deeper out in Odessa, another small town in the  Ritzville branch. We woke up Saturday to fresh snow and it snowed most of the day. The big problem is not with the snow, however; it's with the wind. Some of the highs this week are in the single digits, and with the wind it feels like -20. Noses and cheeks instantly freeze when we get out of the car when the wind is blowing. I sent a letter to our mission president asking what he expects of us in such dangerously cold weather. Today I spent some money and bought thermals (thermal garments aren't terribly warm or comfortable, and with regular ones I don't have to wash them every time I use them) and boots. The rubber overshoes I got for my mission keep the snow off of my shoes but not out of them.[2] I hope the boots will fit properly; I didn't want to tighten them too much in the store because it would take too long. They are size 12 because the 11s weren't wide enough (curse my wide feet!).[3] It should work out, I hope.

Most of the snow is dusty because it blows off the dirt and then the dirt gets blown around. Most of the snow is not original snow; it's mostly stuff that's been blown from elsewhere. It's been amazing to watch it blow. It looks like little snakes slithering on the road, or little spinning gusts heading down the sidewalk. I have been wearing every warm article of clothing I own. That works out for most of my body except my face. Even if I were to wrap my scarf so that I looked Muslim I'd still be cold.

I should be shipping off a package today or tomorrow, I hope. It has a Halloween dodgeball as the biggest item.[4] I also decided to throw in all the letters I've received on my mission. If you could find a place for them (even if you keep them in the box) I would appreciate it. Most of them are from you. I also threw in a memory card with the explanations (I hope you can find them with all the letters, and FYI, my picture frame does not take the stick). I will send home gifts. The family present is nothing big so you can eat it immediately. You'll be able to tell what I got for Allie and the combined one for Preston and Franklin. You'll probably think it's stupid but they were right where we were and I didn't want to go to the toys because I can never decide what to get. You can decide if they're worth wrapping for them or not.

I did get some ideas for Christmas if it's not too late, but they're not too important so don't worry if it is. It might be fun to have the scriptures on CD (for long car drives when we don't get to study), or rechargeable batteries since my camera eats them pretty quickly. But whatever you get will be fine. If possible, it would be fun to have wrapped gifts. We already have one to open on Christmas, but I don't think living in an apartment will allow for a mystery Santa like last year.[5] If you want our home address to send them here it is:
104 E 2nd Ave # 9
Ritzville, WA 99169[6]

The members we stay with in Davenport were making sloppy joes and I mentioned the sandwiches you used to make with the ground beef and cheese and peppers, etc. Later she specifically asked me to ask you for the recipe. While you're at it, it may be fun to have recipes for Christmas sugar cookies or a buche de Noël. I probably won't make them for Christmas but I'd like to know I could.

We got a call that I got a package but it was sent UPS so they couldn't forward it. Hopefully the sisters in Cheney will be going to the office (since one of them is going back to Temple Square) sometime so they can pick it up. I don't know from whom it came, because I know you know to send USPS.[7]

Two years ago, among my glowing ornament decorations, twenty-nine Christmas shows, and three-year-old niece, I found myself sadly saying things like, "This is my last Christmas." Now, with my homemade wreath, common MoTab, and Micah 5:2 written festively on the whiteboard, I find myself with the same sentiment.
I wrote this for personal study on the day after Thanksgiving.
"O Holy Night" for some reason makes me particularly depressed. I have no more Christmases on my mission.

Some of the reason for this is a dream--a nightmare, perhaps--I had on Tuesday night. In it I went home. I got home and I was like, "Now what do I do?" I was trying to make up excuses not to call President Brower to release me, like, "It's Monday night so we can't interrupt his FHE." (That will actually be a valid concern when I get back.)[8] I went on a walk and I cried. But then I realized it was 2008 and I still had another year, and that made everything better.

But the dream made me realize the truth. I'd always had little fantasy scenes of everything being perfect when I got home. Now I realize that it won't be that way. I'm going to be sad and have no idea what to do.[9] I don't know how soon it'll be before I watch TV or listen to music because it's been forbidden for so long. The year 2008 is almost over, and I go home in 2009. It's so sad.

As for killing Elder L., Elder B. was my only non-three-month companion (he was six weeks). But companions are staying together longer. The mission is getting a large number of missionaries so there will be an increase from around 77 companionships to 90. We are speculating that they might split our area and one of us would stay in each. We agree that if that happened I'd probably stay in Ritzville and Elder Love would stay in Davenport. But this is complete speculation and probably won't happen.

I hope to send my Christmas cards off today.

Love,

Elder Melville



[1] The title for my email comes from a song from The Year without a Santa Claus.
[2] The Mr. Mac salesman sold me some rubber overshoes that weren’t terribly useful.
[3] My memory of getting size 12 was because we pressed the “customer assistance in shoes” button at Walmart, but they took too long to respond, so we left.
[4] I never saw that dodgeball again.
[5] Since I lived with members my first Christmas, somehow word got out that I didn’t have any presents to open on Christmas, so someone got some for me.
[6] If some nefarious person wants to use this address to go heckle missionaries, they don’t live there anymore, so joke’s on you!
[7] “From whom it came” is an awkward construction from my prescriptivist days. The package was from my Aunt Terri.
[8] The night I got back was a Monday, but it was the stake president’s counselor (and the bishop who sent me out) who released me.
[9] Yeah, that basically happened in real life.

Sunday, December 9, 2018

Within five days (12/8/08)


It hasn't been long since I last emailed; at least, it doesn't seem to me.[1]

Let's see--what's happened since last week?

Well, Thursday night we sang in Spokane at a nativity exhibit. Four of us stood outside the church singing the hymns from 201 to 214. It was fun but we sang a lot. We weren't allowed to sing Primary songs :(. I wanted to sing all of the hymns, and I was kind of the lead singer, so we would turn the page and I would just start singing so no one had time to say they didn't know the songs. That was OK; Elder L. caught on very well and another elder wasn't on tune with the songs he did know (I don't know about the fourth; I couldn't really hear him). "While Shepherds Watched Their Flocks" was the only song I'd never really sung before, but I learned it by listening to music last Christmas. We sang it in sacrament meeting yesterday, and no one knew it there. The first counselor in the branch presidency announced it as "While Shepherds Walked with Their Flocks" and everyone was completely off. Back to Thursday, there we stood, in our red scarfs with green hymnbooks, in front of a heater singing for three straight hours. Immediately after I had to speak with a higher voice because through the evening I went from being a bass to a tenor since I wanted to sing everything in the proper key.



Friday evening we had interviews. President Clark told me that when he and Sister Clark had come to the nativities Sister Clark didn't recognize me because I'd lost weight, I had a smiley face (I don't know what that's supposed to mean) and they didn't expect me to sing so loud. I imagine my Elder L. haircut also contributed.[2] President told Elder L. that he (President) has to make the decision whether he dies in this area or goes elsewhere for his last three months. So after Christmas I'll either have a new companion or I'll kill off a six-month companion.

Saturday we caroled on a street corner in Davenport in the morning, and then went to a small town called Creston. We also explored a resort settlement (it can't be called a town--not really any businesses, only rich houses) called Lincoln. We drove down to the loading dock of Lake Roosevelt. It was beautiful, but we didn't really do much in the area; we had called or couldn't find the less-actives there, and the houses were intimidating to tract, and we were running out of daylight.


Sunday we had a lesson with some girls who are in the custody of their active grandmother. The older one will be adopted by her grandma, but the younger will go back to her dad. The younger one said she wanted to be baptized, but she needs parental permission, so she called her dad and asked. They expected a no, but he said he'd let her know in a week. We're praying his heart is softened.

That was our week. We have been highly enjoying the "Rejoice and Be Merry!" CD. It's probably the best one we have. It was worth the $18. Both of us love "Riu Riu Chiu." The only people I've ever heard sing that are the King's Singers and the Monkees (I caught the Christmas episode two years ago). I wonder why no one else performs it. I also like "The Twelve Days of Christmas" and ordinarily I don't like that song that much. Elder L. has an older MoTab CD where they sing all the verses to different tunes, like "Stars and Stripes Forever" and the Nutcracker suite. That one's dumb, but I like this version with the little interludes for each of the gifts. 

I was confused at your comment that you haven't been to a concert since Dave got home from his mission. Do you not recall three years ago, when we went to the MoTab dress rehearsal? It was a Thursday night (I think), and we went with your sister. We got home late, and I stayed up to do math homework and watch Mr. Krueger's Christmas.

As for the stick and the picture frame, I don't remember seeing anything on my frame that would accept it.[3] But I'll look when we get back home later this week. We have been gone from Ritzville since last Tuesday night and probably won't get back until Thursday evening this week. All my Christmas candy is back there. Since I've gained about seven or eight pounds in the last month (making my net loss about thirty-five pounds), I have declined doughnuts, apple pie, and cookies in the last week. I can eat holiday foods, but after Christmas is over, it is impossible to find New Year candy,[4] and Valentine's season doesn't start for a while.

I need Dave's new address. I'll see what I can do for presents for the little ones. It is so weird to see five-year-olds now, because I know that's Allie's age but it's so much older than the Allie I remember. Franklin should be spinning in a few months, and they will need to make note of the date he first does, since I remember when Allie and Franklin did (Dec 3, 2004, and Nov 27, 2005, respectively).

As for a shoe repair place, I doubt I'll find one when we don't even have dry cleaning, but I'll look it up.

The Messianic Judaic investigator reads the Bible and believes Christ to be the Messiah, but tries to practice the Judaic law, I suppose because he feels that to be the most truthful. We meet all sorts. Teaching part-member families and less-actives are the most fun because they already have a foundation so we don't have to explain as much.[5]

Concerning the Austrian pine, if you had wanted to use it as a Christmas tree, as was once discussed, I would have liked to be there. But if you were just cutting it down, it would have been better while I was gone. I'm glad you can keep it trimmed. It was fun to use the branches in 2006. If I had kept the flocked tree in 2005, would it have been thrown out by now, or would you have changed your mind?[6]

And about cats--it will be nice to have Jenny, but I don't know if I'll want a cat again if she leaves, at least not soon. I have seen so many cats and kittens in this area, and seen and smelled the homes with colossal numbers, and they're not as appealing anymore. I've probably seen more cats in this area of my mission than I've seen the rest of my life combined. The only thing that may make that a false statement is when we went to the pound to get Jenny.[7]

I can't think of anything else, but maybe I'll write a snail mail. Next week I should be sending out Christmas cards, so if there's anyone you think I should send them to, give me their address.

Love,

Elder Melville



[1] The title of my letter was a parody of “within five years” from the “Samuel Tells of the Baby Jesus” song. I think I did it because my previous email was five days earlier?
[2] My companion had accidentally given me a super short haircut.
[3] My mom sent me a flash drive with pictures to put in my electronic picture frame, but I don’t think it had a USB port.
[4] It was this very year (2008) that I decided to allow myself whatever candy I wanted for the New Year season, which I still practice.
[5] My mom’s email asked, “Is you investigator the " tries to practice the Messianic Judaic law" Jewish or did he just pick that up as what he wanted to do?  It must be interesting to teach some of your investigators.  I know I would learn a lot and have to study a lot to be able to hold my own.”
[6] We had an Austrian pine in our yard that was growing too big. We discussed cutting it for Christmas sometime. In 2006, I cut some branches and made a kind of weird decoration. My family cut it one summer while I was in college because the ward offered to cut it one day, so it never became a Christmas tree. My grandparents owned an artificial flocked tree that I inherited when they moved out of their house. In 2005, my family made me get rid of it because it took too much space, and I was very sad about it. They told me if I kept it, they would get rid of it when I was on my mission anyway, so I reluctantly agreed to get rid of it so I could keep my sister’s old tree. I just got rid of my sister’s tree this year (2018).
[7] My mom’s email said, “Did you cat encounters make you miss Jenny?  Dad would be more than willing to send her to you.  Do you think your mission pres. would mind? Actually Dad had to admit the other day that he still thought Jenny was better than a dog and now that I am trying to be good about emptying the cat box he will like her better.” After my mission, I didn’t like cats that much. But now I love them again.

Sunday, December 2, 2018

I shall always love December as the crowning time of year (12/3/08)


[1]Oh, boy, I've got a lot of stuff to write and not a lot of time to do it.

First of all, you're probably wondering why I'm emailing you today. Well, we went to the temple this morning, so we had to switch our P-day since the temple's not open on Monday.[2] This is due to the fact that we can only go once every other transfer, and temple closures, etc, have prohibited me in the past, and the four months I was on the other side of the mission it was pretty much out of the question. (The temple district for the Wenatchee stake is Seattle, but we are only allowed to go to Spokane!) A member from my first area--former counselor of the stake presidency from when I was there--was a veil worker so he briefly said hi in the celestial room. I was glad but kind of annoyed that my temple pants do not fit me anymore; they're too loose. They're the kind that don't need a belt, so I can't just go buy a white belt.
It's only the second time I've been to the temple on my mission (not counting the MTC) and the sixth in my life.

Our temple trip worked out nicely, because tomorrow we are going to be caroling for a nativity exhibit in Spokane, so we had to be up here for that, and the next day we have interviews. It also worked out perfectly, because my package surprisingly arrived on Tuesday. If it hadn't come so early it would have been on our doorstep for nearly a week. Thanks so much for the package. I know a few months ago I mentioned I needed new insoles for my shoes, and you said you would send them. I was wondering how you would do that without the shoes, but if you can, I would appreciate it. The Hushpuppies are too uncomfortable anymore that I seldom if ever wear them, which can't be good for my Rockports. If I'm ever up in a civilized area again, I may just buy some shoes. Maybe I'll just get some from Wal-Mart. I don't know if I'll ever buy Rockports again; they're comfortable shoes but the traction is almost completely gone, as are the heels.

The "stick"[3] you gave me for the pictures requires that I shut down the computer to run the program, which I don't know how appropriate that would be on a public computer. Maybe it would be fine, I don't know, but it troubles me to do so.

The ornament that came with the tree was smashed when I opened it (whose bright idea was it to use a glass ornament?) so I have Allie's on it instead.[4] I don't know if they sell simple plastic ornaments individually.[5] I have enjoyed the Christmas music, although the disc is exceedingly scratched so not all the songs worked on our car CD player last night (although it worked on our inside player).[6] But since the last time I emailed we switched our car twice. Ours hit 50,000 miles, which is when they like to sell them, but there were older cars with fewer miles they needed to sell first. Since our area uses more miles we took an older car and gave the high-mileage one to the missionaries who gave us theirs, and then this morning we got a brand new one.
It is exactly the same as the new car I got in Mead (except for the silly blinker sound), and the weather and the new car smell make me feel like a greenie again. Anyway, what I told you this for is that maybe in the new car the CD will work better. And if not it's fine inside.

But I also spent some money today at the LDS bookstore near the temple and bought the new MoTab/King's Singers CD. It was $18 but it's an enjoyable listen.[7]

Are there any requests for Christmas presents from anyone? I don't have any ideas for me but I would like to send some.

In the MTC I had a dream that involved the Thompsons' van getting stuck on a muddy road at night. In Mead I thought I discovered the road, except it was paved. But that dream was fulfilled even more last Tuesday, when we were driving out in the country. We saw a sign that said "Water Over Roadway" and a half-frozen puddle/stream blocked the road. We worried about the ice on the other side damaging our car so we stopped and ultimately turned around. But the place was just like the dream, especially since it was a gravel road.

Thanksgiving was good. I did 250 sit-ups in the morning, and then I made a wreath out of some piny branches from a member's yard. It's not so much a wreath as it is a bunch of branches loosely tied together and pinned to the wall. Once in a while we get a real piny scent, but not all the time, and when you sniff the branches all you smell is dust. Some small spiders I think resided in the vegetation; I have discovered three so far.

Friday I was getting Christmas lights out of our apartment closet, and was perplexed to find diapers. I had seen them before but it never really registered to me. I was wondering why on earth there were diapers among the items in our storage. Some pretty random stuff can be found in missionary dwellings, but I really didn't understand the training pants. Well, Monday one of our investigators had some horrific problems (that will ultimately lead to better things) and wondered how to pay for all of her expenses, including her son's diapers. It just so happens that the ones we had were his size. She asked us, "How did you enquire [acquire] them?" I told her I didn't know, but her mom, who was excommunicated (and is very gung ho about being rebaptized), told us God put them there, and I think she's right.[8]

That same mother was one of four women at a lesson Monday night. There we were, across from a less-active, an investigator, an ex-member, and an active fellowshipper who is extending her friendship duties far beyond our meetings. It was awesome.

The investigator that night was one of the new ones we spontaneously found on Saturday. The other tries to practice the Messianic Judaic law. He agreed with the apostasy and everything, so he just needs to find out the Book of Mormon is true.

Yesterday we had a lesson with a woman who is sort of agnostic, but we read Alma 34 with her. She loved the language of it, having studied literature, and I told her that if she read the testimony of Joseph Smith she could recognize that the writing style is completely different and that the BoM was not just concocted, but she said it didn't seem concocted at all, without having read Joseph Smith.

By the way, Joseph Smith was a hilarious man. I was reading in History of the Church where he gave a discourse about heaven and said that Paul spoke of three degrees, such as the reference in 2 Corinthians about the third heaven. He said if the sectarian doctrine is true about one heaven, "Paul, why do you tell that lie?" It was really funny. (See HC Volume 5, I think page 425.)[9]

All the things I'm hearing--Allie's voice on the ornament and pierced ears, [a cousin]'s son, engagements of high school peers, [a cousin]'s mission prep, [two wardies]' speedy returnings, etc.--these many things all make me wonder how much will have changed when I get back. It boggles my mind.

Yesterday we saw a Persian cat that had never been brushed. It looked like a deformed marshmallow, with huge lumps of matted fur. The owners got it from someone who died and they're planning on getting it shaved. The wife of the current owner has Alzheimer's or dementia or something, and she told us they were going to shave it about ten times while we were there. That cat wasn't as funny as what we saw on Friday. We were leaving an appointment, walking down the street, and heard a cat fight. We looked up and saw it up on the roof. One cat went toward the other, which backed up--all the way off the roof! It was about as high as our home roof above the front door to the ground, if not higher. It was funny but scary at the same time, but we think the cat was OK because it wasn't there when we looked where it would have fallen.

The picture is blurry because I didn't use flash; I worried it might annoy the old lady.

It was hard to get in the Christmas spirit at first, but I think we've got it now. It snowed on Friday everywhere but Ritzville, which is where we were.

Hmm...Is that everything? Probably not, but if I need to tell you anything else I'll try to write. I need to get better at that. And I'll be emailing on Monday again.

Love,

Elder Melville



[1] The title of my email came from the lyrics of an old Primary song, “December,” from Sing with Me.
[2] I did one of my pet peeves here: doing an endowment session is not the only way to “go to the temple.” Baptisms are just as valid.
[3] A flash drive.
[4] My mom sent me a Charlie Brown Christmas tree. My sister sent me a red ornament with a picture of her and my niece, with my niece saying, “I miss you, Uncle Mark.”
[5] I still have the tree, and I have a plastic red ornament on it.
[6] My mom sent me a mix Christmas CD with Primary songs, A Charlie Brown Christmas, and the King’s Singers.
[7] The album Rejoice and Be Merry!
[8] There were some Pull-Ups that she used, but what we thought were diapers were actually incontinence pads. I still don’t know why we had them in our closet.
[9] “But saint Paul informs us of three glories and three heavens, he knew a man that was caught up to the third heaven, now if the doctrine of the Sectarian world, that there is but one heaven Paul what do you tell that lie for and say there are three?” Smith, History, Vol. D-1, June 11, 1843, 1574.

Sunday, November 25, 2018

Thanksgivings past, present, and future (11/24/08)


Two years ago we spent Thanksgiving in Fillmore, in the empty Melville house. That morning we got crackers for Allie, who remarked how Miss Sue[1] had those crackers at school. We watched A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving on a travel DVD player.

One year ago, I was transitioning off of my crutches, and scared out of my mind for the upcoming Wednesday. I had a hard time believing that that was actually going to be the last time I would see my family. I had a hard time believing I would actually be able to tolerate being gone for so long.

But here I am, and I still have not seen my family. But it does not feel that way, because I have called twice and I get weekly correspondence in writing. Today I looked at the blogs,[2] and that was what made me realize how long I've actually been gone. I can't believe the age of my niece and nephews, one of whom I've never seen. I think Preston appears to have aged the least. Do not infer that I am homesick, because I am not. I just cannot believe how much time has passed.

This Thanksgiving is kind of a day off for us. We have our regular morning schedule until 10:00, then we can do whatever we want. We've been invited to two dinners so far, so hopefully they're at different times. I think I'll make this amazing spiced cider some members gave us a few weeks ago, and I tried my hand at it one morning. Warming apple juice with stick cinnamon and whole cloves in it tastes amazing and leaves a really good smell.[3] It will be a nice Thanksgiving and Christmas treat. This Thursday is also the three year anniversary of the first time Preston spun in circles.

The next day starts the yuletide season and is also my year mark! Scary! This week we helped a member with some yard work, and we took some trimmed evergreen bush branches for a natural, somewhat fragrant decoration. We don't have tools in our apartment, however, so I don't know how I'm going to turn the pruning into a festive hanging. But it will work out somehow.

I can just imagine Thanksgiving a year from now. I'll be at some member dinner and the conversation will go something like this:

Member: Now, Elder Melville, you just started your mission, didn't you?[4]
Me: No, actually I've been out a while.
Member: Oh? When do you go home?
Me: Monday.
Member: Oh, wow, are you excited?
Me: Not really.
Member: Really?
Me: Yeah, I mean, it'll be nice to see my family, but I'm really sad to leave.
Member: Aww. So where else have you served?
Me: I started out in Mead, north Spokane, then I went to East Wenatchee, then I went to Ritzville and Davenport, then I went to [my next area], then I came here.
Member: East Wenatchee--did you like it over there?...

This is how a lot of member conversations go, but without the part about going home.

Holidays sure are different as a missionary. It can be very difficult for it to feel like any given holiday. The New Year was my favorite mission holiday so far. And after this Thursday, I'll have come full circle. Ever since leaving my first area I've been much more inclined to try to make it feel like the upcoming holiday. I just wish I hadn't bought so much Thanksgiving candy; we still have over three pounds we have to eat. Today and at district meeting on Wednesday I'm going to do a lot of sharing. Because candy corn can get bland pretty fast.

Thanksgiving wishes, harvest love, and year-mark sincerity,

Elder Melville

P.S. I don't know how much time I'll have next week, because we may not be in Cheney for P-day. We found a new person to teach but it sounds like Mondays are the only days that work for them, and the Ritzville library may limit our time more than here. (The Davenport library isn't open on Monday, and that's why we have to come all the way up to Cheney on Mondays.)


[1] Allie’s preschool teacher.
[2] I would look at family blogs during email time. I figured that was just like reading letters.
[3] It has been a tradition for me for Thanksgiving and Christmas ever since then.
[4] Indeed, people did think I was new even in my last area.

Sunday, November 18, 2018

Ten days until Thanksgiving (11/17/08)


I can't believe Preston is four now! I was going to send him a card or something but then I remembered that I don't have their new address. (I don't know if he would have appreciated it anyway.)

Well, nothing is happening this week for our transfers. Within this transfer is Thanksgiving, my year mark the day after :(, Elder L.'s birthday, and Christmas (but not the New Year). I can't believe what time of year it is already. I was glad today that Wal-Mart no longer is playing Christmas music. (I may have to endure some music in preparation for singing as a porter at the Spokane nativity display in December.) I just hope some lousy customer didn't complain, because I cannot stand complainers, having worked there, and I don't think they should get what they want. Hopefully it was an employee (or "associate," as Wal-Mart prefers) that stopped the nonsensical yule tunes.

This week our branch mission leader in Ritzville sent us out to see a friend he's been working with for a while. Her daughter was baptized five or six years ago and it's actually her house but she's been less-active. It was good to go there because she wants to ask her boss for Sundays off now and wants her records sent and visiting teachers and all that. She also wants us to teach her, which is good for us because L. Tom Perry wants us to teach twenty lessons a week to investigators, recent converts and less-actives, and we're not even close to that. Plus, her mom might sit in on the lessons and she would be a new investigator.

Let's see...this week was somewhat blah so I can't think of anything else really noteworthy. We got flu shots on Tuesday. It was a requirement from the mission president. I've never had the flu in my life, and last year was the first time I got the shot as far as I know. On Monday evening we had a lesson set up we feared would be a bash so we were prepared to leave immediately but it wasn't. He just had questions. He asked about Jesus and Satan being brothers. I explained it but he didn't understand it because he kept talking about how he couldn't believe that and I asked him a question and lost control of the situation. I wish everyone wouldn't believe everything everyone tells them. Far too many people consider themselves authorities on Mormonism without knowing the slightest idea what they're talking about. But that is how I know without a doubt that the Church is true. It is Joseph Smith's martyrdom that is the foundation of my testimony more than anything else.

I cannot believe Allie's dictation.[1] That is so much older than the "I didn't say fat"[2] and "You're moving out"[3] Allie that I remember. I was amazed at Mother's Day. It will probably be weirder on Christmas. I hope I'll be able to call before you take off that day. We don't have our itinerary for Christmas yet and it's hard when we live in our own apartment without a land line and we can't use the cell phone.

I have yet another request. It won't be long before my journal is full, so I would like another journal for the second half of my mission.

A year ago at this time I was in Tennessee. Tomorrow is the anniversary of my sprained ankle.[4] I don't even want to think about December. It has gone by so fast and it's scary.

I can't think of anything else right now to say. I always do at other times but I don't know what to say now.

Love,

Elder Melville


[1] My niece was five years old, and my mom included a message from her in her email:
“This is a warning.  This will be a long letter.  This first segment was dictated by Allie.  I don't edit, I just do what I am told.  Even the "um" part...she was watching what I typed and said, "Hey, I just said 'um', you are sposed to write that down."

“Kindergarten friends: Peach Shalene, Emma Kirk, Grace Kirk, Allie Melville, Maxine Ma, Sam VanMinde,  Nathan Wright, Andy Ho, Griffin Berg, Austin Lair, McKenna, Sione, Julia, Ethan who just moved to the afternoon class 'cause he didn't like it being too loud in the morning.  Levi is in the afternoon class and I love him .cause he is cute.  He likes McKenna, too.  Allison is in the afternoon class.  I am trying to give her a hug but she keeps running away from me. 
“My favorite thing in kindergarten is at recess.  I love to play princess.  I usually play with Emma and Grace but they are starting to play Indians now.  But I like playing with Levi now.  And Ethan is the one who plays, too.  At lunch time I even play with Grandma's kids Emily, Sydney, Andrea and Casey.  We like playing that.  One day they came to stare at me at lunch and Mrs. Capson asked if I was the one they came to see.  Do you know what we do with half the second recess?  We use the little white bars and Andrea is the witch - I promise.  I bet she is going to get me first.  Because me, Sydney and Emily are the princesses and Casey is the prince.  He killses Andrea..  We pretend there's alligators.  OK, let me tell you something.  On Friday, um, we did run around the playground and Emma and Grace said, "Indians, Indians."  And I ran and then I lineded up first.  At princess we run and Andrea gets Emily and captures her, then I get captured and then Sydney.  Then Casey starts to save us.  And when they go in I ask Elliot if I could play with him and he letted me play with him.  Isn't he nice?  What I usually do with Elliot is that we play a lot of games and we pretend that I am stuck on the red slide.  Elliot's cute.  He comes and saves me.  But when I play with Maxwell and I get up the slide and find Andy and we try to get Maxwell up and keep him from falling. 
 “Bye, bye.”
[2] A few months before my mission, we were at my sister’s apartment with the TV on. There was a weight-loss commercial with an overweight cartoon woman, and Allie said, “Look, Grandma, her belly’s as big as yours!” My sister said, “Allie, that’s really not nice.” Allie responded, in complete innocence, “I didn’t say fat.”
[3] When Allie was mad at me, she would tell me I had to move out.
[4] I had visited Tennessee to see my brother’s family before my mission. We were practicing bike riding one day, and I crashed and sprained my ankle.

Sunday, November 11, 2018

Here it is, a week later (11/10/08)


[1]So it sounds likely my birthday package may be the same as my Christmas package...[2]

Anyway, I thoroughly enjoyed the weather this week. Most days it was foggy or rainy. It even snowed in Davenport this week, but unfortunately we were in Ritzville that day. It seemed like in the winter Utah weather mirrored Spokane weather, but not now. I hope it snows soon.

The following paragraph is an exact copy of what I sent in my email to President Clark. I didn't feel like retyping it for fear of lazily omitting details:

Yesterday we had a very interesting experience. We were having dinner with some members. The parents are active, and the daughter is too, but she's married to a nonmember. During dinner the nonmember, Don, explained that he was having tooth problems and was going to see a dentist that week. After the meal he told us he was going to go lie down because he was in too much pain, and I could tell by his face and his voice that he really was hurting. Elder L. asked if he wanted a blessing. He accepted, but he'd never had an LDS blessing, only Catholic blessings. We explained it and gave him the blessing. A minute or so after the blessing we were just talking with the family and he had a stunned look on his face. He explained that it was the first time in two weeks he hadn't had any pain. Even his shoulder, which he hadn't told us about, wasn't hurting. He said he'd always been a skeptic, but from then on he wasn't. The family took the opportunity to tell him that they weren't surprised because they knew the power of the Priesthood, and that when he is baptized he can have the same priesthood, and he is just a dry Mormon. I don't know how soon it will be before he is interested in joining, but it was definitely an important event in his probable eventual conversion. The family thanked us because he had declined previous suggestions for blessings from family members. It was the first time I'd seen a blessing work so amazingly, but it was especially joyful because it was to a nonmember.

That was probably the highlight of the week. In addition to that I got to learn the area a little better by going on exchanges (where the district leader and us swap companions for a day) and staying in Ritzville. The last time we exchanged I went up to Cheney. Having an exchange in your own area when you have been there less time is the most excellent way to learn an area. I hope what I learned won't come in handy soon; transfer calls are this Saturday and I hope our call comes from the zone leaders, telling us we're both staying, and not from President Clark, telling us one of us is leaving.

Last Monday Elder L. cut my hair, but he put the wrong size on the clippers, and didn't realize it before he started cutting.[3] Therefore I had a very short haircut, probably shorter than it's ever been in my life. I felt like Gilligan when he woke up and proclaimed, "I'm bald!"

This week I got to travel to Odessa, another one of the small towns we cover. It's always fun to get to a new town. I think there are still a few towns and definitely a few settlements I haven't been to yet. This whole area has a lot of German background--a lot of businesses have the word "haus" in them. Lutheran has been the predominant religion here for a while, although I think it's waning in popularity. Missionaries many years ago left a bad taste in the residents' mouths when they went into a Lutheran church and left pamphlets in all the pews. It sounds, though, like much of that feeling has left as many people have left and members have set good examples. There is, however, a sign in town that lists all the churches, but what I've heard is that the other churches didn't want us listed, even though the Church at one point did a service project to redo the sign. Even the Seventh Day Adventists have a listing on the sign with as different as they are. But we're not alone. The Jehovah's Witnesses aren't on there either. But the joke's on the churches. Ours is the first steeple you see when you come into town that way. I think we should get with the JWs and put up a big sign that says, "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the Jehovah's Witnesses welcome you to Ritzville." It's so funny how much other churches hate us. Ding ding ding! We have a winner for the modern-day Pharisees and Sadducees and the true Church of Jesus Christ.

I'm glad you liked my pictures. I'm preparing a small memory card to send home soon with my pumpkin dodgeball. I'm glad you liked the Wenatchee shots.[4] It was beautiful, but I think I like the aesthetics of arboreal areas and wheat farming (i.e. Spokane and where I am now, respectively) more than the deserty Wenatchee Valley. But don't get me wrong, it truly was beautiful. It probably was more pleasing to the eyes there, but I like the environment more in this part of the mission, for some reason. Maybe it just has to do with the time of year.

Climbing up that mountain was scary. I don't know if you remember my email about it or not.[5] The other elders suggested taking a shortcut since we were short on time, but they didn't know that the shortcut took us straight up the mountain, and took more time. It was very scary. It was dangerous to go up, but it would have been more dangerous to go down (which we inadvertently did do to some extent--gravel is not safe on such steep slopes!). Rock climbing is against the rules, but hiking isn't. We just didn't expect that one would turn into another.

Today I also sent off my birthday check with my verses to "Follow the Prophet." The one about Zechariah is my favorite.

Well, my companion's waiting for me to finish. Goodbye!

Love,

Elder Melville


[1] The title of my letter comes from a quote from an old Green Acres episode.
[2] My mom’s letter said she still hadn’t sent my birthday package.
[3] Unfortunately, I don’t have any pictures of this. Perhaps because my mom lost the SD card with the pictures from this part of my mission.
[4] My mom said she had just barely looked at the pictures I had sent home.